I think, it is because you never can keep a proper distance afterwards.
Imagine your loved one telling you that your way of doing things is not good enough. Although you won’t take that easy, you won’t let your anger out either. But if a friend speak the same line, what will you answer?
- Fuck away. Who the hell are you to teach me what I should do?
When former lovers fall apart every casual remark become poisonous. Even if the love in question is non-mutual you still end up with a high chance to hit a sore spot.
Imagine your loved one telling you that your way of doing things is not good enough. Although you won’t take that easy, you won’t let your anger out either. But if a friend speak the same line, what will you answer?
- Fuck away. Who the hell are you to teach me what I should do?
When former lovers fall apart every casual remark become poisonous. Even if the love in question is non-mutual you still end up with a high chance to hit a sore spot.
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Date: 2004-03-20 04:17 pm (UTC)